If the owner is present, ask for permission before interacting with the dog at all. The dog may not like children, or men, or hats, or whatever, and the owner can give you a heads up before you lose a finger or your child suffers a disfiguring injury. Alternatively, the dog may be working or in training and should not be disturbed. Accept the owner's "no, please don't" with grace, and turn your child away.
Children should learn how to approach all dogs in a non-threatening manner, whether they encounter dogs in your own home or in other people's homes and yards. The child should approach the dog slowly and speak quietly. One hand should be outstretched, with the fingers curled loosely under. The child should allow the dog to sniff his or her knuckles before trying to pet the dog.
If the dog appears accepting of the child's attention, the child should begin by scratching under the dog's chin, rather than petting the top of the head. Many dogs are head shy and will react negatively to someone reaching to touch the top of the head. If the chin scratching goes well, the child may move around the side of the head to the ears or may begin petting the dog's sides and back. Tummy rubs are most always appreciated, and the dog may lie down and roll over to get one.
As tempting as it is, children should not grab the dog's cheeks and lean in for a kiss. That face-to-face interaction may be too much for the dog, leading to an awful face wound on your child.
Very young children should never be allowed to visit dogs without adult supervision. Both dogs and young children are unpredictable – not a good combination.
If your child has permission to give a dog a treat, teach the child to hold the morsel flat on the palm of the hand, rather than pinching it between fingers to be presented to the dog. Dogs have trouble seeing beyond their noses, and cannot tell the difference between your child's fingers and the treat.
A dog who is afraid is likely to bite. Signs of fear include the tail curling between the hind legs, the whites of the eyes showing, posture low to the ground or leaning backwards, and raised hackles (the fur on the back and neck). The dog may or may not growl or bark as a warning before biting. Read more about behavioral signs of fear.
There are certain times when you never want to disturb a dog. For example, dogs who are confined in a crate, behind a fence, in a car, or tied out tend to be very protective of the space they are occupying. They should never be approached by a child.
Mama dogs who are tending their puppies should be left alone at all times. A mother's instinct is an awesome thing; she will protect her young at all costs. Even if it is your own dog, she will not want to be bothered when she is feeding or grooming her puppies.
You've heard the expression about letting sleeping dogs lie. There is a reason for this, and it's not just because everyone is crabby when they first wake up. When you intrude on a dog's sleep, you may also be intruding on his dreams. If the dream happens to be about catching and eating a squirrel, your hand might be mistaken for the prey. And many of us, dogs included, are disoriented when woken out of a deep sleep. It wouldn't take much for the dog to nip whoever woke him up.
Finally, any dog who is eating should be left entirely alone. Food aggression is very common, particularly in homes with more than one dog. Anyone reaching toward the food dish or bone is fair game for a rebuke that more often than not involves teeth.
Many dogs have a very strong prey drive as their early ancestors survived by hunting, and their more recent predecessors may have been bred to assist hunters. What attracts a dog to follow prey? The small animal makes a high pitched sound and runs away.
What does your child do when playing or when startled by a dog? He or she may make a high pitched sound and run away. Is it any surprise the dog thinks the child is prey? Not so much. Teach your children never to run from a dog, but to walk away quietly, facing the dog if possible.
If possible, substitute an object for the dog to bite, rather than hands or legs. If the child is wearing a jacket or carrying a toy or even riding a bike, the object can be "fed" to the dog. What the dog wants is to bite down on something, so he or she may back off to tear apart whatever is in his or her mouth, allowing your child to escape.
If the dog knocks your child down, the child should roll up into a ball, covering his or her ears with curled fists. The parts it will be easiest for the dog to tear off are fingers and ears, so the child should make sure neither are sticking out. Curling into a ball protects the vital organs of the stomach, chest, and neck, leaving only the back and shoulders for the dog to attack. Lying still makes the child seem less like prey. That's not very fun for the dog, who may lose interest quickly.
The child should be trained not to make eye contact with the dog, as this may be interpreted as a challenge. The child can either shut his or her eyes, or simply stare at the ground.
The child should also resist the urge to scream. Again, those high-pitched noises may work the dog into a frenzy because they simulate the noises made by wild prey. Loud yelling in a deeper voice may help to scare the dog away, but high-pitched screams are counter-productive.
To keep your children safe around your own dog, make sure you do your homework before bringing a new dog into your home. Research breeds to find those that are best with children. Experts most often suggest Golden Retrievers, Labrador Retrievers, and Beagles for families with children. See our complete list of dog breeds that are good with kids.
Visit a breeder or shelter and observe how your child reacts to the dogs (both puppies and adults) there. If the child is fearful or mistreats the dogs (pulling tails or poking eyes), perhaps it might be better to postpone adopting a new member of your family.
Using these common sense reminders will help keep both you and your children safe from dog bites. Above all, never assume a dog will be happy to see you. Take the time to assess the dog and to allow the dog to assess you before deciding whether or not further interaction is a good idea.
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